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Marriage Among Servants
Exodus 21:1-9: Now these are the judgments which
thou shalt set before them. If thou buy an Hebrew servant, six years he
shall serve: and in the seventh he shall go out free for nothing. If he
came in by himself, he shall go out by himself: if he were married, then
his wife shall go out with him. If his master have given him a wife, and
she have born him sons or daughters; the wife and her children shall be
her master's, and he shall go out by himself. And if the servant shall
plainly say, I love my master, my wife, and my children; I will not go
out free: Then his master shall bring him unto the judges; he shall also
bring him to the door, or unto the door post; and his master shall bore
his ear through with an aul; and he shall serve him for ever. And if a
man sell his daughter to be a maidservant, she shall not go out as the
menservants do. If she please not her master, who hath betrothed her to
himself, then shall he let her be redeemed: to sell her unto a strange
nation he shall have no power, seeing he hath dealt deceitfully with
her. And if he have betrothed her unto his son, he shall deal with her
after the manner of daughters.
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Polygamy
Exodus 21:10-11: If he take him another wife; her
food, her raiment, and her duty of marriage, shall he not diminish. And
if he do not these three unto her, then shall she go out free without
money.
Deuteronomy 21:15-17: If a man have two wives, one
beloved, and another hated, and they have born him children, both the
beloved and the hated; and if the firstborn son be hers that was hated:
Then it shall be, when he maketh his sons to inherit that which he hath,
that he may not make the son of the beloved firstborn before the son of
the hated, which is indeed the firstborn: But he shall acknowledge the
son of the hated for the firstborn, by giving him a double portion of
all that he hath: for he is the beginning of his strength; the right of
the firstborn is his.
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Women a Man may not Lay With:
Leviticus 20:14, 17, 19-20: And if a man take a wife
and her mother, it is wickedness: they shall be burnt with fire, both he
and they; that there be no wickedness among you ... And if a man
shall take his sister, his father's daughter, or his mother's daughter,
and see her nakedness, and she see his nakedness; it is a wicked thing;
and they shall be cut off in the sight of their people: he hath
uncovered his sister's nakedness; he shall bear his iniquity ... And
thou shalt not uncover the nakedness of thy mother's sister, nor of thy
father's sister: for he uncovereth his near kin: they shall bear their
iniquity. And if a man shall lie with his uncle's wife, he hath
uncovered his uncle's nakedness: they shall bear their sin; they shall
die childless. And if a man shall take his brother's wife, it is an
unclean thing: he hath uncovered his brother's nakedness; they shall be
childless. [However, there is ruling on marrying your brothers Widow -
Deuteronomy 25:5-10]
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Requirements for Priests to Marry:
Leviticus 21:7, 13-15: They shall not take a wife that
is a whore, or profane; neither shall they take a woman put away from
her husband: for he is holy unto his God ... And he shall take a wife in
her virginity. A widow, or a divorced woman, or profane, or an harlot,
these shall he not take: but he shall take a virgin of his own people to
wife. Neither shall he profane his seed among his people: for I the LORD
do sanctify him.
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Women's Vows Before Father and Husband:
Numbers 30:1-16: And Moses spake unto the heads of the
tribes concerning the children of Israel, saying, This is the thing
which the LORD hath commanded. If a man vow a vow unto the LORD, or
swear an oath to bind his soul with a bond; he shall not break his word,
he shall do according to all that proceedeth out of his mouth.
If a woman also vow a vow
unto the LORD, and bind herself by a bond, being in her father's house
in her youth; And her father hear her vow, and her bond wherewith she
hath bound her soul, and her father shall hold his peace at her: then
all her vows shall stand, and every bond wherewith she hath bound her
soul shall stand. But if her father disallow her in the day that he
heareth; not any of her vows, or of her bonds wherewith she hath bound
her soul, shall stand: and the LORD shall forgive her, because her
father disallowed her. And if she had at all an husband, when she vowed,
or uttered ought out of her lips, wherewith she bound her soul; And her
husband heard it, and held his peace at her in the day that he heard it:
then her vows shall stand, and her bonds wherewith she bound her soul
shall stand. But if her husband disallowed her on the day that he heard
it; then he shall make her vow which she vowed, and that which she
uttered with her lips, wherewith she bound her soul, of none effect: and
the LORD shall forgive her. But every vow of a widow, and of her that is
divorced, wherewith they have bound their souls, shall stand against
her. And if she vowed in her husband's house, or bound her soul by a
bond with an oath; And her husband heard it, and held his peace at her,
and disallowed her not: then all her vows shall stand, and every bond
wherewith she bound her soul shall stand. But if her husband hath
utterly made them void on the day he heard them; then whatsoever
proceeded out of her lips concerning her vows, or concerning the bond of
her soul, shall not stand: her husband hath made them void; and the LORD
shall forgive her. Every vow, and every binding oath to afflict the
soul, her husband may establish it, or her husband may make it void. But
if her husband altogether hold his peace at her from day to day; then he
establisheth all her vows, or all her bonds, which are upon her: he
confirmeth them, because he held his peace at her in the day that he
heard them. But if he shall any ways make them void after that he hath
heard them; then he shall bear her iniquity. These are the statutes,
which the LORD commanded Moses, between a man and his wife, between the
father and his daughter, being yet in her youth in her father's house.
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Daughters Marrying outside their Tribe:
Numbers 36:1-8: And the chief fathers of the
families of the children of Gilead, the son of Machir, the son of
Manasseh, of the families of the sons of Joseph, came near, and spake
before Moses, and before the princes, the chief fathers of the children
of Israel: And they said, The LORD commanded my lord to give the land
for an inheritance by lot to the children of Israel: and my lord was
commanded by the LORD to give the inheritance of Zelophehad our brother
unto his daughters. And if they be married to any of the sons of the
other tribes of the children of Israel, then shall their inheritance be
taken from the inheritance of our fathers, and shall be put to the
inheritance of the tribe whereunto they are received: so shall it be
taken from the lot of our inheritance. And when the jubile of the
children of Israel shall be, then shall their inheritance be put unto
the inheritance of the tribe whereunto they are received: so shall their
inheritance be taken away from the inheritance of the tribe of our
fathers.
And Moses commanded the
children of Israel according to the word of the LORD, saying, The tribe
of the sons of Joseph hath said well. This is the thing which the LORD
doth command concerning the daughters of Zelophehad, saying, Let them
marry to whom they think best; only to the family of the tribe of their
father shall they marry. So shall not the inheritance of the children of
Israel remove from tribe to tribe: for every one of the children of
Israel shall keep himself to the inheritance of the tribe of his
fathers. And every daughter, that possesseth an inheritance in any tribe
of the children of Israel, shall be wife unto one of the family of the
tribe of her father, that the children of Israel may enjoy every man the
inheritance of his fathers.
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Marrying Outside the Covenant:
Deuteronomy 7:1-4: When the LORD thy God shall bring
thee into the land whither thou goest to possess it, and hath cast out
many nations before thee, the Hittites, and the Girgashites, and the
Amorites, and the Canaanites, and the Perizzites, and the Hivites, and
the Jebusites, seven nations greater and mightier than thou; And when
the LORD thy God shall deliver them before thee; thou shalt smite them,
and utterly destroy them; thou shalt make no covenant with them, nor
shew mercy unto them: Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy
daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou
take unto thy son. For they will turn away thy son from following me,
that they may serve other gods: so will the anger of the LORD be kindled
against you, and destroy thee suddenly.
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Captive Women's Rights:
Deuteronomy 21:10-14: When thou goest forth to war
against thine enemies, and the LORD thy God hath delivered them into
thine hands, and thou hast taken them captive, And seest among the
captives a beautiful woman, and hast a desire unto her, that thou
wouldest have her to thy wife; Then thou shalt bring her home to thine
house; and she shall shave her head, and pare her nails; And she shall
put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine
house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that
thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy
wife. And it shall be, if thou have no delight in her, then thou shalt
let her go whither she will; but thou shalt not sell her at all for
money, thou shalt not make merchandise of her, because thou hast humbled
her.
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Separation of Newlyweds:
Deuteronomy 24:5: When a man hath taken a new wife, he
shall not go out to war, neither shall he be charged with any business:
but he shall be free at home one year, and shall cheer up his wife which
he hath taken
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Widow's Options:
Deuteronomy 25:5-10: If brethren dwell together, and
one of them die, and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry
without unto a stranger: her husband's brother shall go in unto her, and
take her to him to wife, and perform the duty of an husband's brother
unto her. And it shall be, that the firstborn which she beareth shall
succeed in the name of his brother which is dead, that his name be not
put out of Israel. And if the man like not to take his brother's wife,
then let his brother's wife go up to the gate unto the elders, and say,
My husband's brother refuseth to raise up unto his brother a name in
Israel, he will not perform the duty of my husband's brother. Then the
elders of his city shall call him, and speak unto him: and if he stand
to it, and say, I like not to take her; Then shall his brother's wife
come unto him in the presence of the elders, and loose his shoe from off
his foot, and spit in his face, and shall answer and say, So shall it be
done unto that man that will not build up his brother's house. And his
name shall be called in Israel, The house of him that hath his shoe
loosed.
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DIVORCE
Deuteronomy 22:13-21: If any man take a wife, and go
in unto her, and hate her, And give occasions of speech against her, and
bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I
came to her, I found her not a maid: Then shall the father of the
damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's
virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate: And the damsel's
father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to
wife, and he hateth her; And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech
against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are
the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth
before the elders of the city. And the elders of that city shall take
that man and chastise him; And they shall amerce him in an hundred
shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because
he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall
be his wife; he may not put her away all his days. But if this thing be
true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel: Then they
shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the
men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she
hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house:
so shalt thou put evil away from among you.
Deuteronomy 24:1-4: When a man hath taken a wife, and
married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes,
because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a
bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his
house. And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be
another man's wife. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a
bill of divorcement, and giveth it in her hand, and sendeth her out of
his house; or if the latter husband die, which took her to be his wife;
Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be
his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the
LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God
giveth thee for an inheritance.
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